Vintage

Many people are confused as to how doulas interact with the laboring woman's partner. Rest assured that my job is bring the soon-to-be mom and dad closer together during labor. I do not replace the partner or usurp his role. Having me present enables the father to relax because there is someone there to guide both of them through the process. Most partners have had very little exposure to birth and laboring women. I am there to reassure the dad and show him labor support skills so that he can be involved in the birth right from the start. Even though seeing his partner in labor can be unnerving, I work hard to encourage him that what he is seeing is normal and that there are ways for him to soothe and help her to bring this baby into the world. Many glowing testimonials come from fathers who are amazed at how helpful and supportive the presence of a doula was for him.